when my W left, I made the terrible mistake of calling her female friend from work. I felt like I needed to clear the air. I told her that I was only trying to protect our marriage. She said she just started to talk to my W in the past few days in a serious manner about the entire sitch. She said she has told my W countless times that she should work on our marriage and this whole thing with OM had gone to far and to just get over OM. She said she just feels bad for my W because everyone at work is talking about her behind her back. She suggested to talk to OM friend and he could shine some light on what actually did happen.
SO I called him and the convo was brief, he pretty much told me everything I already knew.
I had left the house and took the dog to the park. W had returned home shortly after and called me wondering where the dog was and I told her with me and where, she said she would be right there. W showed up and started to play around with the dog.
W told me how she had a convo with her father for nearly an hour and that she told him how she became friends with a guy at work and now he has betrayed her and everyone is talking about her behind her back. Her father gave her a pep talk of sorts...W did not say if she spoke to father about our sitch or her moving out but I am sure they did.
We went home. When we got back W wanted to go over the phone logs. This is when she discovered that I had spoke to woman from work, so I told her I did call and she told me did not feel comfortable talking to me and suggested I speak to OM friend.
W is upset because she thinks something more is going on...I really got myself into a jam here.
The female friend said the convo was between us but I admitted the convo to my W and the friend does not know I did.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10
