Jeannine, Oh! Those feelings that come on a dime when something is said that hurts! It's bound to happen and it sounds like your H tried to help you through it. When they say something of that nature we jump to comclusions that they are subconciously thinking of what we are hating to hear. I don't think your H has any desire WHATSOEVER to live apart from you. Remember........to look at actions, not words. Still......I know how it makes you feel.We can't run from it, we just have to work through it. Rachael