Wow, lees, you are moving thru some powerful emotions. Moving through to the 'done' stage fairly quickly.

As I was saying to LFA, it always seems like the other person's sitch is so much better (relatively speaking) than your own. For example, your WAW has become such a total, awful, alien, that in my petty little heart I have to believe that it is (relatively) easier for you to detach, be done, etc.

Echoing pearl--and my own sitch--move on, build your life--and IF she asks to come back, well, assess it then.

But don't be waiting around.

I am feeling awfully jealous about Scotland and Highland Games and all. Men in kilts...sigh...

Get on out there and have fun!