Yes, I see what you mean. He would have to be prepared to end A etc before even having a chance of reconciliation. But I think that he would have to feel some control over doing the actual ending...so that it felt 100% like his actions and his choice.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
