problem is... i don't know if it's a problem. My H is a local celebrity around here. If this gets out, it could ruin his reputation and he could loose his job. i don't want to be a spiteful person and I don't want to manipulate him in to wanting to save our marriage. I guess i must have miss interpreted LRT. I didn't realize that I was supposed to stop caring about what he's doing. Even if I did understand that, how in the heck am I supppose to emotionally distance myself from someone I love? I got a life... I got a hobby, spent time with friends, was away from home often, acted happy around him, stopped calling, stopped saying "i love you." He and I work opposite schedules anyway so he didn't get to see a lot of it and in my opinion didn't do much good since he was doing all that right back to me! so please, please. tell me how to emotionally distance myself from him?
When you are happy as an individual, you are in a better position to determine whether a partner enhances your happy life or weighs it down.
