You're right, Truegritter, I do need to detach more and stop putting so much focus on my H. Right now most of my thoughts are of him, what he's doing, why is he doing this to me, what can I do to get him back, etc. ugh I'm not sure what it is I can do to STOP, though.
M: 34 WAH: 38 (in MLC) Together: 11 years Married since: November 2000 DS: 15 DS: 11 DS: 10 ILYBINILWY: Dec. 2009 Living separately since: April 2010
