Any time you try to exchange emotion with her, its pursuit right now.. LEAVE HER ALONE
Think Mr Spock.
Would he go say hi to his wife?
Steer clear until her tantrum is over.
It's interesting, you and OIN both have wives in almost the exact same situation.
Both OM are distancing themselves, WS wives don't like it and are pissed off... Both are threatening to leave you guys...
My advice is the same for both.. Steer clear and let these women grow up... reality is setting in.. it takes time.. dont' volunteer to be theri punching bag.
PS : Ken, say hi to your kids, pets, plants, EVERYTHING EXCEPT your WIFE.