And for the record... Yah... "I was selfish IS a cop-out"
I dunno 4luv, I would make this guy d-bust for six months wtihout putting any time into your marriage yourself.. make him do 100% of the heavy lifting for at least six months to see if he's really gonna stick to it. You did 100% of the heavy lifting under EXTREME DURESS for HOW LONG?
Let him try that ride out for a while... It just seems like you are working 50-50 with him right now and he's still dissappointing you.
