Thanks for such a detailed reply, D! Really, really helps.
She may be more comfortable now that it doesn't look like there will be a 'showdown at the OK corral' or moments of high drama. Would this fit with what you know of her?
Yes, definitely. She hates the drama. (At one point she even said to her BF that she can't stand how dense and dramatic OM was when he talks about his problems with his W).
Can you really say that you have done everything possible to save your marriage if you aren't even willing to see other women?
It's not as if I'm not trying, it just hasn't worked the way I'd like to. I'd like to date but most of the girls I've met are parties and have shown any interest on me were looking for something more physical. I haven't met anyone looking just to date.
But believe me, I'm at a point where I'd love to date someone and practice my self confidence, etc.
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Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *
