J The guy that baptized my wife has taken a real interest in my situation and is driving activity among the leaders at my W's church.
He asked my W to tell me that he has a bible study group once a week and invited me to come. I went today and talked with him afterward. He told me the "Family Life" pastor at the church wanted to speak with me, so I called him.
You realize that they are trying to make you join their church, not save your marriage, right?
If they believed that marriage was an important part of being a good Christian, all these people who are around your wife would have already told her to honor her vows, stop lying, and commit herself to the marriage. Or if not that, then cut the ties with you and give her whole heart to this new way of life she's supposedly a part of.
Since she's done neither - and the church members have done squat as well - you can logically deduce that they have no interest in saving your marriage. All they want to do is get you into their way of thinking, follow their beliefs, maintain that they are good hearted, loving people. Which they aren't. If this church is so lovey-dovey about its members, there's no way the people at that church didn't know the OM wasn't your wife's LEGAL husband.
It's a fraud.
They are bearing false witness. Stay away from this. If you believe God is speaking to you and sending you messages, then this is a test of some sort. If your wife wanted to come back, she would.
She hasn't.
Listen in your heart...do you think God wants you to be humiliated around a group of liars and people who post pictures of their baptism on Facebook (you know, instead of enjoying the moment in private?).
