Is it because it is "anonymous" here that it is fine that we spill out our heart and discuss or troubles? Isn't her H basically doing the same thing? He is going to someone that knows her, that she confides in, that she doesn't have anger towards. I do get her friend not wanting to be in the middle.

I am not trying to create an issue, I just think in a way it is a bit hypocritical to say he can't ask for help to understand but those of us here can.

Back to K's thread.

kat

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