Anyway she did all the housework, worked a full time job, did all the childcare, taught all of the kids how to play all of their sports, etc etc. She definitely has a martyr complex about it and thinks her kids 'owe her' for all she had sone for them.
Interesting, MIL is the same way and that's what STBXW grew up watching. So when I turned out to be the opposite of her dad -- I never miss events, I'd help around the house, do the driving to practices -- it seems like instead of helping I was actually crushing her sense of self.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
