Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

I've been following your sitch too. Unbelievable some of the things your H has done. I agree about the dog emails...WTF? Seriously. Why would someone want to add anymore hurt to the sitch? You have been incredibly strong. I've learned a lot from you.

You know what upset me most about the gym membership? Not that she wanted her individual membership, but the fact that she didn't tell me the truth that she had already renewed by herself two days earlier. Why lie? What's the point? What does she think she gains by not being truthful with me about something so insignificant? Uhhh! Why play that game? In her first email about it she could have just said she renewed and wanted to remind me that the joint memebrship waa about to expire. Maybe that makes too much sense? She knew what she was doing. She knew I was going to ask her if she wanted to split the cost.

I agree with you about her actions speaking louder than words. My IC said that because she has contacted me about things that were unnecessary, it might be her way of trying to keep the lines of communication open. We'll see what happens. My W strikes me as someone who wouldn't make contact if she didn't want to.

When I've been out lately I've noticed women talking to me and being nice (not sure why as I always wear my wedding ring). I am in no way looking for any dating. No thanks. I look at these women and think to myself that while I'm sure they are wonderful people, they aren't my W, they aren't the one I love...

Detaching is hard.