Sounds like it's all good. It's disgusting to think that they have been carrying on INSIDE the church in a way that others thought they were the married couple.
Personally I still think you need to tell the OM to back off, but that's me. Did the church guys say when they were going to do something? I think it's great that they are taking a very aggressive stance to this. More churches should do the same.
I met with the OM back in June or July, after that I told myself I would never speak to him again or give him any significance whatsoever.
Don't know what me telling him to back off would do, honestly, besides giving him and my W something to talk about.
The guy who baptized my wife is dying to talk to him - he doesn't pull any punches, after all he did spend time in prison - so I have a feeling it may happen soon.
It will either have a "circle the wagons" affect (where W and OM bail on the church) or increase the stress level of my W. She adores the church and is always volunteering and taking classes there. I honestly don't know how she can take being there with the church leadership and prominent others pounding on her to stop what she's doing. Yet she goes, and is there several times a week.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09
