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#200623 12/19/03 08:54 PM
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PIB,
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I suspect that your husband HAS noticed her behavior and THAT'S the reason why he's making plans with her by themselves.


Hmmm... I never looked at it quite like that.
I like your take though.
Looking at it in this way, makes it more - well....palatable.


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#200624 12/23/03 04:04 PM
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My gift to everyone on the bb this holiday season is: HOPE .

Do you ever think "This DBing thing probably works for other people, but I don't think it's going to work for me".

I thought that.

"We have too much hurt between us now", "My spouse is incapable of coming around" or "We have unique problems and nothing I do or say will help".

I thought that too.

"I'm not strong enough to get through this".

Yep, I thought that too.

I made it...still making it - and so can you.

Take a deep breath, be patient with yourself and say something sweet to your reflection everyday.

Best of the season to one and all.




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#200625 12/23/03 04:07 PM
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Hi Jeannine,

That is very sweet of you to wish us all HOPE!

Thank you for being there so often for me on this long journey.


Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
#200626 12/23/03 04:31 PM
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Thank you for that little Christmas present, Jeannine!


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
#200627 12/23/03 04:47 PM
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Pam,
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Thank you for being there so often for me on this long journey.


Same here, sweetie.


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Thank you for that little Christmas present, Jeannine!


Tis my pleasure.


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#200628 12/23/03 05:03 PM
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Thanks Jeannine. That's a wonderful gift to offer.

In fact, you should consider copying that post on "Newcomers".

... and may this magical time of year stay with you through out the whole year!

'til later,
KAW

#200629 12/23/03 06:56 PM
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Kaw,
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That's a wonderful gift to offer.
In fact, you should consider copying that post on "Newcomers".


I like your suggestion.

I think I'll do that!


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#200630 12/23/03 08:21 PM
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Yes, it's very cool and true too. We've seen some really awesome turn-arounds in our R's and in others who seemed "hopeless".

Here's to HOPE!

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Do I hear champagne glasses toasting? Clink!
Jeannine, you have been a wonderful support over the past year, and I thank you for being there.

#200632 12/23/03 10:26 PM
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Tal and Kelli,

Looks like I'm going to have to grab a flute and pour me some Champs.

Here's to my bb buddies, my fellow brave hearts, my FRIENDS - one and all.

May we have the courage to pursue our heart's desire and the wisdom to know when it's been met.

Clink...


Jeannine
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