I've been wondering where you have been. I'm sorry that he's stalling with everything. Sounds to me like he doesn't want to let go and yet he's not made a move to return home. This is where it gets tough, i.e., when you know things have to be done in order for you to survive.

I do hope that you are being kind to yourself. Are you taking care of yourself?

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.