My gift to everyone on the bb this holiday season is: HOPE .

Do you ever think "This DBing thing probably works for other people, but I don't think it's going to work for me".

I thought that.

"We have too much hurt between us now", "My spouse is incapable of coming around" or "We have unique problems and nothing I do or say will help".

I thought that too.

"I'm not strong enough to get through this".

Yep, I thought that too.

I made it...still making it - and so can you.

Take a deep breath, be patient with yourself and say something sweet to your reflection everyday.

Best of the season to one and all.



Jeannine