The guy that baptized my wife has taken a real interest in my situation and is driving activity among the leaders at my W's church.
He asked my W to tell me that he has a bible study group once a week and invited me to come. I went today and talked with him afterward. He told me the "Family Life" pastor at the church wanted to speak with me, so I called him.
He had a basic understanding of my sitch but wanted to get my take. He was impressed with the way I've handled it thus far, and told me things will be "coming to a head" at the church soon. Not sure what he meant by that, but he did say that he had seen the OM at church with my W and was taken aback when he learned it was not her husband.
He agreed with me that counseling is worthless if there is an active affair. He is going to speak to my W one on one, and then speak to us both together. His position is that she needs to renounce her inappropriate relationship and give reconciliation a chance.
Don't know what will happen if/when she stonewalls him on that one, but she did agree to meet with him, so we'll see how it goes.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09
