Thank you CityGirl. I would think her sensing that I am slipping away is exactly what I want her to feel? I would think that could mean that I might be Dbing correctly? I think in some ways I am slipping away.

I don't know why she is making small talk lately? Everything she has emailed me about for the past two weeks are all things she could have taken care of on her own or things she didn't need to tell me. None of this recent contact by her was necessary. At any rate, I'll keep it business on my end.

Any thoughts on when to try to engage in small talk other than business related items? No, I'm not going to pursue. I'm just curious when you take what they give you and try to take it to the next step?


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
Sitch