Game Point

[pigskin]

I have had these kinds of discussions with this OW and she totally gets it and has told me she is falling in love with me, so I am a little worried since I am not exactly 'available' but see no harm in making new friends like her but I might have given too much of myself in all these conversations.

I could let it go immediately - mind over matter - which is something WAW was too confused/hurt/in too much pain to do with her OM in order to save her M and family.

Just make sure you are pretty much done with your W if you hang out with this new woman. After all, most people in affairs would probably say they never intended for it to get as serious as it did. It is already serious in that the woman has TOLD you she's falling in love with you. This is a BIG deal - remember women are much different than men in these areas. The fact that she said that to you probably has you thinking about her more and more.

Thinking you could cut it off at a moment's notice might be presumptuous if you aren't careful. Knowing that she loves you puts a hook into you that could prevent you from cutting it off - after all, you wouldn't want to hurt her, right? Boom - now you are in your own affair.