Thank you so much! My counsellor just told me the same thing and wow did you nail it on the head. He has already done the manipulation thing and telling me that his relationship with the kids is so bad right now because he is not around enough and does not get to send them off to school and such. And of course this is all my fault. He is tired of everyone telling him that he left and these are his consequences but the truth hurts. I have even gotten a second job to ensure I am out of the house at least 2 nights a week and 2 weekends a month so that he can spend time with the kids (as they will not go anywhere with him) so I think I have done my duty, he just made me feel really guilty the other day and that was why I was waivering. So thank you very much.
m-34 w-33 d-15 s-10 m-11 years t-16 years bomb - Feb 24/10
