He wants his way, no matter who it hurts, as long as it doesn't hurt HIM....the typical MLC'er will run over whoever they need to run over, to get what they want..unfortunately this can turn into a runaway train that runs down the LBS.
I still think you need to cut him TOTALLY off..no business contact, no personal contact, nothing...do what you can from your end to keep the business afloat, but stay totally away from him.
That would be my advice, take it or leave it.
When you continue to see him in a business setting, he STILL will continue to argue about getting his way..getting both of you off the business discussion..he's NOT interested in the business right now, he's MORE interested in keeping you right where he wants you so he can continue to justify what he's doing. If he can get his way, he'll calm down for a short period of time, then it will be something else, entirely, they are NEVER satisfied with getting their way in one area..they want it all and will suck the LBS dry if allowed to.
Do NOT allow him to do anything with your computer..it's just yet ANOTHER excuse for him to try and continue to get you to give in to what he wants....his anger is actually GOOD for him to experience, but you do not need to be anywhere around him...it would be better if OW got the brunt of it...and I honestly hope she does; as your husband's "true colors" will show, and hopefully run that woman right off, given some time.
We can only hope.
Ok, yes, I kinda did pull an all nighter last night between a truck inspection, unloading my load, went on over to the next shipper, and loaded my current load, early this afternoon...so I DID get some sleep.
I'm all right, got a few irons in the fire at this point; all is very well with my husband...he's getting ready to pick up his first load after having been off work for so long, and we were working out a few details over the phone this morning....the changes in him continue to become better as time goes on...I'm thinking for the first time, that we're actually out of the woods, and in the open...and I'm glad, too.
Dealing with an extended time of crisis is/was tiring, for sure.
But it will be all right, neither one of us are going anywhere, kept a good handle on this all this time...we will be all right.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.
