Jeannine...I'm so sorry that h's sister is being so, well, alien like herself...the silver lining, I suppose, is that it DID give you a chance to show h all of your grace and understanding (and excellent DB skills!). By letting him BE you reminded him that he can be himself with you and let you in on his life and choices.
BTW...I love the absence of judgement and ASSumption when h didn't call you back right away! You've come a long way, baby! (h, too!)
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
