Confused and looking for advice

[DownNotOut...yet]

I would say absolutely not. Boundaries are a popular buzz word around here lately...You do not have to be nasty but HE moved out. He does NOT live there any more. Why in gods earth would you leave YOUR house and sleep somewhere else overnight. He left you, now he wants you to make his leaving convenient for him? NO NO NO and NO!!!

He will absolutely be angry about this but if you allow this, it will be the first step in him learning he can come and go as he pleases. Limbo like that can go on for years.

He will tell you, you are keeping him from his kids. He should of thought of that before he left his kids. Do not cave in to guilt or manipulation.

Feeling consequences for his actions will get him thinking. The longer he is out of the house, the better chance you have of getting the house in any settlement. Tell him NO and did I mention tell him NO!