Thank you so much SMM23! Your insight means alot to me. I am glad that you were able to finally realize though. I hope there's hope for my sitch and that I'm able to find my H again within this cloud of confusion he's in.

You nailed it.

He has told me (and our MC) that he had an A to escape his problems (me, $$, etc.)

HUGS to you!

M: 32
H: 34
S:5
D: 3
D: 1
Together 11 years
Married 7
Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off)
ILYBINILWY: 08/09

"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting."
-Laura Munson