I ended up collecting the letters, pictures, etc of my W and I from the apartment. I don't know how or why, some notes my wife made on a pad ended up in that package.
Most of them are lists about things she hate in her life (her parents abandoning her, her friends abandoning her, feeling fat, etc). There also some lists of things she feels grateful for (one of them is me and her marriage.
This just confirms what I already knew, her issues have deeper roots than whatever REALLY happened in our marriage.
My question is, should I give them back to her? Should I throw them away?
F
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *
