That's AWESOME Jeannine! Isn't it wonderful when they FINALLY are saying and doing what we thought was just a pipedream? Your living proof of just how much a R can change. You say, "Who Knew?" I say you had a goal and you never gave up. Now you know, and I'm glad you do because you can pass your wisdom on to us who are inching along ever so slowly. Yes, A list is in order. The do's and the dont's. Did you ever make one that you can share with me? I'll have plenty of my own, but since what you did worked, I'd be mighty glad to hear yours. I think it's something we need to never lose sight of-those things that work against us, and those that draw us nearer to our goals. I'll share it on my thread-there's something to be said for putting your thoughts to paper. It makes it, well, like legitiamte or something like that. I thank you for your understanding when I rant.(yikes!) I'm going to go through alot of emotions in this process and it's good to know that I won't be judged by my fellow BB buddies - Some of the most awesome people I've ever had the pleasure to get to know. Jeannine, you really do rock! Thanks. Rachael