Well, the new attitude is helping with my PMA, helping me move on, helping me detach. What can I say, that is progress. We all agree I need to do those things!
The coach said the fact that H says he still loves me and likes me means a lot.
He is worth waiting for because he is my husband and I love him.
He says there are "things he never wants to live with when he thinks of a lifetime together with someone." This is my biggest hurdle in that he says even if I change now, who knows what will happen in five years, etc.
I guess he's still in blame stage.
I do feel he still loves me and I do feel intuitively there is a chance, I just don't know whether to trust this or not. I mean I used to feel he would never leave me either.
I don't know what to do with that except try to be friends. If he feels more, that is up to him. If not, I have no choice.
