It's amazing what a few days, or years will do, isn't it? Why, just having a heart-to-heart talk with a fellow DBer can make all the difference in the world; thanks Max!
And even across cyberboards from here to newcomers (the wifey and I) although in different places, are still in the same place as we were two years ago; in limbo. Lord, get me out of this marriage please? Heaven help us all!
A calm heart heals all hurts, poet P.S. Guess I should have explained myself ... When anxiety hits us, a calm heart heals all hurts. (How's that for alliteration?)