Finally have a court date set. We are going in front of the judge to try and get temporary support from the WAS.
Try? Oh, you'll get it dear. You'll get it.
Originally Posted By: poet
Nancy, the office manager, said he came into the office a week after we filed for the temporary support hearing, on Feb. 4th, demanding that she shut off the propane (while it was freezing outside, and I would have been without heat). Nancy told me, "Well, of course we couldn't do that because your gate was locked."
Probably illegal, too, with people still living there (what a pr!ck!).Yea, Nancy!
Originally Posted By: poet
I think he's in for a surprise. At least, I hope things will go my way.
I think you're in for a surprise: it will go your way.
Originally Posted By: poet
Please pray for me.
Coming your way, friend!
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
"Probably illegal, too, with people still living there (what a pr!ck!).Yea, Nancy!"
Ya know, Gardener, I never thought of it that way. I doubt that it's illegal. Otherwise, don'tcha think my atty would have said so, when I told her what happened? Oh well, you're probably right about the "otha" thing.
BTW, hey, you didn't mention really "going to the other universe..." on your thread. Maybe I'll hang out there sometime and wait for you to come. LOL
What: thanks for writing. Not much happening right now, other than I am going to court today with H. My atty wants me to tidy up the financial affidavit before I come in today, which is always a bother. I'd rather be sailing! (But please don't make any jokes about it when I come home, like the last time). Seriously, unless, of course, things go really, really well, which, although some believe it will, I still have my doubts.
Thanks all for the well wishes, all. peaceful poet
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Thank you so much for checking on me. I've been, um, well, how shall I say ... a little sad. I guess it's just the process that brings me down, just the process. A little hard to take, I guess.
The judge ordered him to pay $500/paycheck and $4,000 attys. fees, which, from the face of it looks good, but he was already paying for the electric and Internet and the judge ordered me to pay it now. So, I guess we're even.
Thanks again everyone who's reading. Please stay in touch.
Divorce is a business transaction as horrible as it sounds. Keep your head up and keep putting one foot in front of the other. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
It's amazing what a few days, or years will do, isn't it? Why, just having a heart-to-heart talk with a fellow DBer can make all the difference in the world; thanks Max!
And even across cyberboards from here to newcomers (the wifey and I) although in different places, are still in the same place as we were two years ago; in limbo. Lord, get me out of this marriage please? Heaven help us all!
A calm heart heals all hurts, poet P.S. Guess I should have explained myself ... When anxiety hits us, a calm heart heals all hurts. (How's that for alliteration?)
Thanks for the compliment. The sentiment remains the same. Left my H a written note on the top of the envelope of his mail today ... mail that was in the mailbox at the house. It read: "The next time you come, your mail won't be here. Please change/forward it to your new address."
Within an hour, it was gone!
peaceful poet, who is tired of him coming home. It's been TWO YEARS!
