I think I will send one. Later. In a week or so. I think you're right about processing time!
If he suggests, well. . . it would have to be something we'd need to talk about actually. I'd ask him if he wanted to talk on the phone so I could 'read' him better. I'd then just ask why he wanted her to have his name. And then I might say "you could join us and share my last name, ha ha!" It was truly something we talked about a lot during our marriage, going to my name. We just didn't because we were lazy. I would definitely make the convo as light as possible because he could be sensitive about it, if he brought it up! Geez, I hope he doesn't. But I do want to be able to navigate these waters before he just hears what her name is.
