Well. I'll have some excitement shortly.

I'm meeting with the stbxW after work to start to hammer out some D plans. We have been trading emails with some financial numbers and property division thoughts, but last night I also made the recommendation to file jointly.

She didn't really address it in the email back, but was more stuck on my desire re-home our cats. I've felt fairly put upon with dealing with everything I did when she was here (cats, bills, house, cars, chores, etc.), but now with GAL'ing and working on me, it is too much.

She wanted me to keep the house, the cats, and just walk away. I told her "Wife. uh uh." Time to help with the remnants of (whatever) our life was together. No more running away.

So we will see what happens.

--Fergie