My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

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My h has not been out partying to mask his pain. He sits at his moms house, works and spends time with the ow. I'm not positive she is still in the picture though. I am wondering if maybe she is no longer in the picture and that is why he is acting even more depressed... I'm just guessing, but I think she found out he is still m and hadn't filed yet. So how serious do you think she thought he was?

Anyway, no I gave not talked to mil yet..... I am being very slow to move on this one. I am waiting to see how the h will react to my asking him to watch the "men get depression" DVD I got. Pretty sure he is going to be pissed and mad, I'm not sure actually.

He is just so random. He told me monday night maybe we could talk Tuesday night. Then I asked him yesterday if he wanted to talk and he made it sound like he did but then he didn't come over, call or text. I just left it alone and don't want to push him.

I'm trying hard to be patient, understanding and not pushy. But this is VERY hard for me.