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[timehealsall]

Hi mission,

I'm sorry about your situation, but I'm glad you found this forum. It's a great place with a lot of wonderful people. You will get great advice here.

If you haven't already, get a copy of the book "Divorce Remedy". I It's what this site is built around. Don't share it with your wife. It's only for you. I suggest you go straight to the bookstore instead of waiting to get it delivered.

The stuff that you need to do is counter-intuitive, and you are gonna need to read the book a few times! In the meantime, read as many threads here as you can. It will help.

My wife of 19 years told me today that she has feelings for one of our single divorced friends

Did she say she wants a divorce, or a separation?

Prepare yourself for the possibility that there is more going on than what she has told you. If you find more out, do not confront her. Come here instead and tell us about it. Some of the veterans here have been through this daily and can really help you handle it!

Hang in there.

I agree with everything here, word for word.

I am sorry you are here but this is a safe place. We are all here to support one another.

Be strong my friend.