Ask him if he hyothetically had a daughter who was married and her H treated her the way he treated you, how he would feel.
I think the biggest wake up call I got when I was young was someone saying "treat your wife the way you would want someone treating your daughter when she gets married"
I would like to hear a detailed response from him about how he would both FEEL and REACT if he had a daughter and learned a man was treating her the way he does and did to you.
