You can rebuild trust Future, but it takes time. Someone in my divorce group said it takes 7 years to fully rebuild after an affair. I guess she read that in a book. Those 7 years do not have to be filled with hurt and resentment though. It is up to you to chose to forgive.

Last edited by v1olin; 05/19/10 05:50 PM.
Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final