rr22: You want to talk about crazy...that is crazy, but he was at that time ridden with guilt because he was about to leave us again after a fake two week reconcile in October. I believe he knew all along he wasn't going to stay and I think it was meant to prove to him that I hadn't changed and that he was in the right to have moved out and done all that he had done, but the complete opposite happened. I proved my changes and it made him feel more guilty.

Nicole: Have you talked to MIL yet? If he is withdrawing from everyone it is not a good thing and he does really need some help just in case he moves to an even darker place. Someone, probably not you, needs to check in with him. A friend or family member? Someone who will listen to him without judging or forcing their ideas, but really be his confidant


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
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2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg
3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89