Puppy, I know this might poke at old wounds, and for that I'm sorry, but how did you do it? How did you get past the reality that your W went from a SSM with you, to a torrid A with another man? How did your ego handle that? How much of your reconciliation was dependent on your own strength vs. needing something from her? How did you return to trusting her? Do you trust her feelings for you?
