Should I Tell Her to Move On???

[gr8 day 2B alive]

GM

How do YOU feel about the credibility of this mutual friend? She has told you about a "possible" OM and she has told you that your W called her crying. These stories are both possible, but is this mutual friend a drama queen?

She is a viable source and a good friend to me. She as seen all the changes I have made too and even pointed them out to W.
She has been wanting us to work things out. She too was almost a WAW but decided to work on M. After her H(my good friend) saw what my W did he woke up and things have gotten better for them.

I haven't broken my marital vows.....yet. That's why I wanted to meet w/ W.

I asked her is she wanted a divorce she said yes, I asked her if she thinks this is the best thing to do, again she said yes.

I agreed, saying if this is what you want, then I am OK with it.

Since the meeting I haven't thought about my M one bit.
I have accepted that things don't always work out.

It has only been a little over a week since then though and I would say that it has already caused a slight change in his wife.

Knowing my W she is not one to make an important decision w/o weighing the pros and cons.
I FEEL she has done this and wants what she said.

During meeting she also she that "if we were to get back together we wouldn't last. We would revert back to our old ways. We bring out the worst of each other."

She also mention her work schedule, She works second shift and doesn't feel we could make it work because of our schedules.

Am I missing soemthing here?

I just spoke to mutual friend and W hasn't contacted her again about the meeting.