All continues to be well at this time...not much to report, I'm working, as always, and he's doing well.
We have decided that when we both get a little money set back in savings after he gets re-established at work, we will make the necessary time to spend with each other...finding creative ways to be home at the SAME time.
Son's closing on his house has been pushed back as of now, the seller forgot one detail..setting property lines.
But it's all good, life is what it is.
On a personal note, I have NO regrets for what I've gone through and experienced...I might as well as gone through this added trial, as to go through much worse things...and we know things could be SO much worse than what they are...yet,sometimes we can't see the forest for the trees. We are ALL like that, at times. That's one of the biggest reason God sends people across your path, to point out what you're not seeing. A person on the outside sees MORE than the person within said trial.
Spending time finding the positives really does wonders for your PMA, though. Being thankful for the smallest of things, for the people that are currently in your life, making changes that are temporary or permanent that will break the monotony of everyday life. Each day, try to learn something new.
Smell the flowers, drop what you're doing, pick up the phone, call and tell someone you love them...life is too hard and way TOO short to be buried in misery.
I will tell you, that it's NOT easy to be happy in spite of the circumstances that surround me at times. I CHOOSE to be upbeat and happy; I choose where I am going be as each day passes.
Above I choose my battles carefully, as not everything is worth fighting for..and some things are best let go, if they are NOT going to be important or affect me in 10 years time.
I choose to surround myself with the people I keep company with, and that includes my husband.
I continue to bear in mind that no one is perfect, and since I'm NOT perfect either, I cannot expect it out of others.
There was and is a great deal of wisdom I have learned out of just living life itself, and am encouraged that others can learn these same things I have gained within me.
This post doesn't warrant an answer, I'm just talking off the cuff today.
Loading to head home, but can't stay home, gotta keep going, I'm still bearing the burden of our household bills for now.
But, I'm all right with that, as this is what team work is all about, helping to hold your spouse up when they are down and can't do for themselves....this could be ME, and it has been me before in past times...and my husband took up where I had to leave off, because I was unable to do for myself and him.
Gotta ride for now.
Have a good one.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.
