It is up to the LBSer to determine if there is a grain of truth in the ranting and venting. Because...there often is.
Personally, this is the benefit of validating....allowing the MLCer to realize that you are listening and more importantly to help identify some of the truths about the R that the MLC spews. IMO - quite often there is a fair amount of truth in what the MLCer will say - the LBSer must be open and honest enough with themselves to hear, feel it, process it and CHANGE it.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
