Did you "pursue" in the friendship before you were married? I know I did!! I wanted him bad--oops--now I got him!lol.
i didn't pursue .. i stalked. he would call me his stalker. i think he knows that i'm really good at figuring him out. he created all new accounts on msn, skype, etc.
i don't really know when he comes and goes. it's not really predictable when he comes home nowadays. he's either hitting the gym, going for groceries, or ordering take out. i try not to let my mind wander and say he's out with a W. i have been reassured that it's not the case. otherwise, i'd have an anxiety attack and begin plotting how to "take him for all he's worth".
