read the thread started by reelingw/asmile. i can relate when she said there was too much info that it was making her brain hurt. that was my weekend. her sitch is inspiring although she is lucky that her h hasn't left the building. she's even more lucky that $ hasn't been an issue between the two of them. $ brings out the worst in you. my h is the prime example.
i went back to read my own post and the advice given. my advisors are right. h is watching my every move. listening to every single word. i had forgotten about this. i don't know why the WAS does this. shouldn't they just want to get up and leave? why do they bother to continue monitoring? when does the crazy talk stop?
it's been tough db-ing when we never see each other. friends have offered their ears to him. he has shut them out as well. but he continues to seek the advice of mom and dad.
i'm moving along as best as i can. i really wish there was some kind of interaction. a sign of some sort.