Ok, I see that Gr8 has already told her essentialy the same thing I advised. It has only been a little over a week since then though and I would say that it has already caused a slight change in his wife.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final