Ken

1. Do NOT watch Dr Phil with your addict wife, you are just setting yourself up for a fight with her
2. Do NOT ARGUE with an addict
3. Do NOT discuss relationship
4. Do NOT tellher to divorce you
5. Do NOT pursue her for more conversation after the fight is over.

What the hell happened to protection phase man? You are still supposed to go there whether she's in your home or not...

You are just doing DAMAGE here...