As far as the OM is concerned, I think he is out of the picture at least for awhile, I don't know. He has asked her not to call him, so we'll see.

My wife now says she wants to leave, but can't because I messed up her credit.

Last night, we were watching Dr. Phil and he said, "You know you're ready for divorce when you no longer have any emotional business with your spouse." And my wife turned to me and said, "I'm ready for divorce." We argued a little about what he meant and she said, "I'm not in love with you." When I suggested she try one more time, she said, "I tried for 11 years!" I reacted and said, "Well then go ahead and get your D! Just leave me alone!" Then she left the room.

Later, I went to her and said, "I already know how you feel about me. I just ask that you not remind me every day, because it hurts to hear it. I am leaving you alone and you can leave me alone."


My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.