Need some help.
My ex suggested that we all go out for dinner on Friday night. (my 2 kids and her).
I said yes.

How do I make sure this is a good experience?
We have done this a few times.

I don't want to do it if it's just her way of smoothing things over between her and I.
I just don't want to do it if it's her ways of softening her guilt of the situation.

I was the one that suggested it would be nice if she was with the kids and I when we do stuff. That is when she said she would love to do things with the kids and I.

Of course I know not to do and R talk.

Suggestions from anyone that has been here...


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Bomb 12/05/07
D final: 03/03/09