Called my L today and she has not heard anything back at all from H's lawyer...I thought he was in a hurry???
So is that good news or bad?
I don't know...
SA...you have such a wonderful attitude and strength! I hope you do not ever have to receive either one of thos papers but know that if you do...you will handle it!!!
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CW, I guess we're going to have to start a mutual admiration party then because I admire how you've handled your sitch throughout. Your strength and determination to handle this in the best way possible for yourself and children is very evident in your posts.
I think you both are handling your sitches great! I think much better than I did when I was going thru it all. But, one thing you both have that I didn't was kids! I think that makes a difference!
Thank you NLT! I know this is CW's thread, but I don't think she'd mind me inviting you to the party! In fact, I'd invite a whole lot of the folks here to the party. Much to admire here!
Hey you 2, Thank you so much!!!! I'm blushing too!! And besides that I love parties!!!!
I really appreciate you both saying that about me. I just want you both to know how much I support you! This is not an easy road - I don't wish it on my worst enemy. Well, maybe my ex's ow Oh, she has already been thru at least 4 so I guess one more wouldn't matter to her.
I'm here for you both & I do pray for so many people on this site.
Hi CW! I was out of town for a bit so am getting caught up with your thread.
1)pic in the glove compartment- when I read that, I immediately thought "OW PUT THAT THERE!" I mean why would it be in the truck and not in a keepsake place somewhere y ? I bet it bothers her that you two aren't divorced yet and that he still goes to the house and helps you out!
2) keeping the truck and the car-- sounds fair and you are struggling while he pays his bills???
3)no activity from his L? Worst case scenario- he needs money to pay his L? best case- he hired L to appease OW and personally isn't 100% sure he wants the D. Of course there are several scenarios between those, but those are just my guesses.
PMA....at least we know we are human when it goes away for a bit... you had anger in its place, right? Anger helps with detachment I think!
Hang in there, CW. You are doing so well and truly handling this crap with grace and class!!!!!
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me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
I always like the way you think! I am reading The Journey from Abandoment to Healing bood right now and it does say that anger is a good thing and yes, finding that pic is what helped me get the strength and courage to take on the truck issue as I am sure you all are getting tired of hearing about that! lol!
So today, we had just parked to go to Jazzercise (my week to drive) and a lady was parking and backing up and right into the bumper of the truck!!!! It didn't hurt it at all but wow! Her white, plastic bumper got scratched but I think she felt so bad and was so embarrased that she didn't care and it was her fault!
M&H!!!! You are doing so well...look at all your PMA!!!! And I appreciate the support!
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