Not sure which way to go anymore

[Abbey]

If H starts at you again. Time for him to have some reality, I think then. If DS is balking, it's one more thing on your plate that you don't need. My thinking above was that if he was willing, DS being with H and you acquiescing to it would give you some peace because you wouldn't have to put up with talking to H right now. Since that's not the case.... Tell him your kidlette isn't receptive at the moment to being with him. Tell him point blank that you're not being a B, but that forcing this issue isn't in the best interest for the relationship between H and DS. So... be calm, and firm and say... let DS get a chance to miss you. He's a little kid... their sense of time/missing etc will come around. You don't need the extra stress.

Abbey