Originally Posted By: RedHeadWife
Glad you're feeling better about things! Truly all you can do is try to stay positive. Keep living life -- taking care of you & the kids & keeping H in your life as much as he seems to want to be there. You can't fix him or his issues for him. You can just work on changing things that you may feel could be changed for the better and show H what he will be losing if he does end up leaving.

He's still living there w/ you, right?


Yup, he is still there.

Called me this morning telling me about the new car we're getting (we're trading my truck in and it'll be a wash, so we don't have to put any money down and it'll cut the payment in half)...it would be in his name and under his credit.

so we shall see what happens.. I'm trying to not think about anything really. Just focused on myself and the kids.


M: 32
H: 34
S:5
D: 3
D: 1
Together 11 years
Married 7
Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off)
ILYBINILWY: 08/09

"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting."
-Laura Munson